Positivity

Positivity 

We all need to rant. It's in our nature to share what is on our minds and share the burden of life. However there is a line that we need to be aware of.

When does our sharing become moaning and when does our negativity begin to become part of the burden of somebody else's life?

We all know that person that is constantly moaning. Life is always worse for them. Do you generally enjoy that persons company? No, of course you don't. So don't be that person! 

Whist its really important to not hold all these things in, its equally important to share in positive manner. Tell people about what went wrong, but also tell them what you did to solve it!

Make more of a fuss about the good things that happened today!  

Be the kind of person that people want to be around. I know I'm biased, but the most positive person I know is my fiancée. She has a natural ability to make people feel better, she doesn't spend time talking about her negatives, but asks people about their positives. She's a joy to be around for this reason. 

If you spend your time talking negatively, you begin thinking negatively and then feeling negatively and that is detrimental to not only you, but to everyone around you.

Its natural to feel down, frustrated and annoyed, but try to think before you rant and question yourself "How can I say this in a more positive way?" " How can I change how I think about this situation?" 

The more you're able to change your words, the more you'll change your thinking and before long, the positivity becomes a natural part of you mindset.